How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 01:50
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
How was your JEE Advanced 2024 result?
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Who is the most dangerous or evilest person of all time?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
What do porn stars do when they get old?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Is visiting holy shrines (dargahs) or graves haraam in Islam?
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
That's it for today.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Why is the Middle East prone to terrorism?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Does not procrastinate.
What I need from you?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
What are some difficulties in a JEE aspirant's life?
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Ask yourself:
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
What is your biggest mistake or regret?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Why do I sweat so much after applying moisture or sun screen on my face? I have normal skin.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Procrastinates a lot.
Making more friends is a goal.
What do men find attractive in an older woman?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
How could Trump, with his deplorable garbage supporters, manage to win an election?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Why does it matter so much to atheists that God doesn't exist?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.